On a typical night with Ellison, you will find her in her chair at some point. It's not that I don't want to hold her but I want her to learn to play on her own too. Plus she loves it!! Just watch the video. I would love to meet the inventor of this chair and given him/ her a big bear hug! This chair has saved me from going insane. She loves to play in it. I sit her in it so I can eat, clean the house, or pay bills. It's a life saver. Enjoy the video!